(First posted 3/4/2016. I’m rerunning it in memory of my younger son Will, who wrote this. He lost his decade-long struggle with severe addiction yesterday (5/10/2023). He had been sober for the last three months (in a recovery house), and it was wonderful to be able to experience the real Will for at least a while before the monster got the better of him for the final time.)
It was 2010, I had just dropped out of high school (one of my many brilliant life decisions) and after three attempts at both the driven and written portions of the test I had finally gotten my drivers license. It just so happened that a cute girl that I went to to high school with who was a grade above me was selling her 2000 Daewoo Leganza because she had upgraded to a VW Cabrio. My father and I drove up to her parents house one afternoon to check out the car. At first glance it seemed to be in fairly good condition aside from a scrape or two on the exterior. Immediately what caught my eye was the leather seating and wood grain! Down the road when girls would ask me what a Daewoo was, I’d tell them it was pretty much the Korean version of a Lexus!
My pops took it for a spin around the neighborhood to see how it drove. Being the son of a car guru like Paul Niedermeyer, I always try to take him with me when car shopping or at least have him test drive whatever ridiculous impulse buy I would pull up to his front curb just so I could be reassured I hadn’t bought a total P.O.S. The Daewoo received the stamp of approval from Dad, so $500 dollars was exchanged and off I was in my first car! It was a fairly smooth ride although the interior noise level was nothing to write home about. The mom of my friend who sold us the car warned me to not take it much further than out to the coast but I completely disregarded her advice. I drove her all the way to San Francisco and back, up to Portland, down to the Applegate Valley, weekly trips to Corvallis and all over Eugene. I ended up putting about 20,000 miles on the odometer by the time I was done with it.
After one too many trips to Southern Oregon, the poor Leganza began to overheat. Although I was quoted a repair bill of $500, I was flush at the time and decided it was time to move on and impulsively purchased a newer Ford Ranger.
That truck lasted a couple months, but that’s a whole other story…………..
My relationship with the Leganza finally ended when I found myself in a financial bind and was offered $400 for it from a local scrap yard. I honestly regret getting rid of it and not putting a little time and money into repairing it due to the fact the interior was so clean and I genuinely enjoyed driving it but everything happens for a reason so I hope someone else got to pick her up for a good price and give her a new life.
For further and more detailed review of this same car check out my dad’s (aka Paul Niedermeyer) review:
CC Capsule Review: 2000 Daewoo Leganza – Will’s First Car
Will (1992-2023) He was a ray of sunshine that was constantly being overpowered by the dark clouds.
I’ll add my condolences to those of the rest of the crew. As someone who has worked in a Drug and Alcohol program, I’ve got a fair idea of what he went through. He has my sympathy, and may he have found peace.
Paul, I am heartbroken to read this. Words fail me at times like this, but please know that you and Stephanie have our deepest condolences. Please let me know if I can help in any way.
My sincere condolences to you and Stephanie, and your wider family. It is too easy to blame the victim for an addiction, rather than help them as a patient. I hope the good memories will be the ones you can keep closest to you.
Paul, please accept my sincerest condolences to you and your family. The void in your lives is immense, and time can only lessen it to a small extent. Your extended family at CC wish you peace and comfort at this time of deep sorrow. You are in my prayers.
As someone who has had to live in a realtionship with an addict I have some idea of the pain, this is utterly heart wrenching news to read. My deepest condolences
Thank you all for your condolences. It means a lot to us.
We’ve been preparing ourselves for this for a number of years, as it was almost inevitable, but it’s not possible to be fully prepared when it happens.
Will really struggled with life; no more. Now we just need to get past it.
I lost my oldest child to suicide in the last week of 2021. I’ve tried to accelerate getting past it, but it stubbornly insists on taking the time it wants to take. Take excellent care of yourselves through the grief, and let yourselves feel all of the feelings.
My condolences for you and your family Paul, sorry to hear about your loss.
So sorry for your loss, and so sorry for Will.
Remember him on his good days, not his bad.
Paul, my deepest condolences to you and your family. The unspeakable void in your lives can only be lessened a small amount by the passage of time. Your extended family at CC wish you peace and comfort at this time of deep sorrow. You are in my prayers.
Paul- Though I only “know” you from here, I feel like I know you… that’s one of those things that happens in media like CC. I’ve read Will’s Daewoo COAL a few times over the years, as a couple of my friends have owned a Nubira and a Leganza, but skipped right to the bottom this time… I am struggling to form words, as there just aren’t words in the English (or any) language to quantify the thoughts or feelings involved. This hits close to home, as I do know the dark side of addiction and the other demons that hang out in that realm. I’m truly sorry for your loss, your family’s loss.
So sorry to hear this Paul, I know that you all did your best. I hope you & Stephanie will suffer less knowing he is no longer suffering.
What a terrible tragedy and shock. My sincere condolences to you, your family, relatives and friends.
My condolences, Paul, to you, Stephanie, your family and friends. A great way to remember him.
My most sincere condolences to the Niedermeyers for their loss.
Oh Paul. Just seeing this now. I am so very sorry for your loss.
Vert sorry to hear, my condolences to you and your family. I had a good friend go through a similar ordeal, in the same way the end was sadly inevitable after a certain point. All despite substantial family support and medical care. I am sure you did all you could, try not to feel guilty as these things just happen.
My condolences.
Oh what sad news. Yet may that sadness bring positivity as you remember the real Will, and may it bring peace that his suffering is over. To Paul and Stephanie, and your wider network of family and friends, my heartfelt condolences to you all.
So sorry to read this heartbreaking news. My thoughts are with you, and your family.
Such a horrible thing to go through both for Will and you and Stephanie. Reposting this is a great way to remember him and the good times. May Will finally find the peace that eluded him in this life.
Oh Paul. My heart goes out to you and Stephanie.
My most sincere condolences to you, Stephanie and the extended Niedermeyer family.
So sad to hear of such a loss. My condolences to both Paul and Stephanie. May you both see him in pleasant dreams as you sleep. I’ve experienced this with lost loved ones and it is other worldly. When my favorite uncle was dying he told me, “It’s not good bye, it’s just so long for now.” I wish you both peace and tranquility.
Paul, you’ve created and maintained a website that is so friendly it feels like family; hence, we offer deeply felt condolences. Be sure to take all the time you need to spend with family and we’ll be here when you return.
i am so sorry Paul. I hope for comfort and peace for you and Stephanie. Addiction is truly a dark monster and, as you know, never gives up trying to tear apart those we love.
I’ve been reading this site for years but have never commented before. I am deeply sorry for your loss.
I just saw this now, what a shock. Paul, Stephanie, and the Niedermeyer family, please accept my deepest condolences. I am so sorry for your loss.
Oh Paul and Stephanie, I am so very sorry for the death of your son. Peace to you in this time.
Paul (and Stephanie)-
I am so sorry for your loss. I’ve been following Curbside Classic for 14 years now and feel like I know you personally at this point. My thoughts are with you in this difficult time.
So sorry for your loss. You have my sincerest condolences today as I cannot imagine.
So sorry to hear this, Paul. My heart goes out to you and your family.
My condolences and deepest sympathies to you and your family, Paul. Thank you for sharing Will’s COAL.
So sorry for your loss Paul.
Just doing the rounds on CC this morning and came to this unexpected news. Very sorry for your loss.
You don’t know me from Adam, Paul, but this touched me deeply. My sympathies to you and your family.
My condolences to the Niedermeyer family. Things will get better, though never the same.
I can’t say anymore than “I’m sorry”
This is such sad news. My condolences to you and your family. Losing a child is the hardest thing to bear.
My sincere condolences to you, Stephanie and the rest of your family on this tragic loss, Paul. May he find peace.
Let me add our sympathies to you & Stephanie & the entire Niedermeyer family. Even if such an event is known to be imminent or likely, it’s tough to process when it actually occurs.
So true. My thoughts are with you Paul . When it comes to auto journalism your Will was like a chip off the old block and thank you for all your hard woek.
Horrible news. Sincere condolences to you and your family.
I type this with tears.
Very sorry to hear this. Sincerest condolences to you and everyone who was close to your son.
My condolences to you and your family, Paul.
Paul, I am so sorry for your loss.
Words just aren’t enough in these situations; I’m very sorry to hear this, Paul.
I first read and enjoyed this review about 3 years ago. I just gasped when I read this today. I am a father. I have a son who is a great kid, but I fear for him at times. I can’t imagine what you’ve been through and are going through now. I’m so sorry for your loss.
Stephanie and I want to extend our sincere gratitude for all of your comments. It has meant a lot to us. CC has become our extended family over the years, and your support and expressions of concern are very much appreciated.
Although he has left a hole that can’t be filled, Will enriched our lives in many ways. And these last few months when he was sober allowed us to experience him at his best. That was a gift; he went out on a very high note.
So sorry to hear this. May you and your family find peace.
Paul, I am so sorry to hear of Will’s passing. Thank you so much for sharing this piece and his picture, and in so doing, giving him the chance to live on forever in your – and our – memories.