Today is our 20th wedding anniversary, and today this automotive accessory is also 20 years old.
When you’re of the marrying age you tend to go to a lot of weddings for friends and family. I forget how many weddings I attended with my wife in the two years we were dating, but it was a lot, and the ceramic mint box at one that inspired me to try for a useful wedding favour.
Speaking of boxes, I had also decided that my girlfriend checked all the right boxes (and vice versa) so we became engaged in Sept 1996. We were both employed adults so there was no real reason to wait a full year and we set a date in February.
If you’ve never been married in February it is great from an organizational standpoint. Every hall is available, all your guests have no prior commitments and can attend. Best of all, you can go to a tropical destination for your honeymoon (and subsequent anniversaries).
Not that I actually did a lot of organizing, I’ll admit here that I pretty much did the minimum and was late for the rehearsal because I was looking at motorcycles. (Yes, I’m still sorry.) However, I did nail the wedding favour. Back when I was single I’d lived in Blenheim Ontario, home of the Mallory window scraper factory.
Since we were getting married in winter I put two and two together, and bought a hundred or so Mallory scrapers from Canadian Tire for two bucks each. I wasn’t done, because they didn’t look very festive so I printed up a bunch of stickers with our names and the date, and we put little bows on them of streamer material, and curled the ends over a scissor blade. Very nice indeed.
Our wedding day was cold but clear, everyone enjoyed their scrapers but luckily nobody needed them right away. Even Oma liked hers, despite the fact that she had never learned to drive, and when she passed away ten years later we inherited her scraper, still unused with the little bow intact.
All the other scrapers did not have such an easy life, our own are getting worn but still doing the job. Occasionally we hear from someone who attended our wedding, dropping us a line to let us know that they still have the scraper and that it reminds them of us.
There is some sort of parallel here between marriages and window scrapers. If you have good tools and try to do a good job you’ll usually get a good result, whether you’re cleaning frost off a window or building a life together.
Thanks for 20 great years of scraping together my dear, Happy Anniversary.
Nice. Fun. Useful. And they still had glass Coke bottles in 97? Talk about your orginal Coke Bottle styling… Congrats on the 20 years.
They still have glass Coke bottles in Cosa Rico, where they were on their honeymoon. And Mexico and other countries south of the border. They’re not as wasteful in that regard as we are.
The bigger membership & grocery stores carry Coke in glass bottles here around DC, and it does seem to taste better than the regular variety. Loved the scraper story; best wishes to you both.
I routinely see Coke (and Pepsi, Mountain Dew, etc.) in glass bottles. And it does taste better in bottles and it’s just not because of being in glass. It’s made with real sugar instead of that infernal high fructose corn syrup found in “regular” US Coke (and Pepsi, Mountain Dew, etc.). That stuff is nasty.
I think they actually sanitize and re-use the bottles down there, not just recycle them. It makes sense on an economical level as well as environmental.
The cane sugar soda leads to a serious obesity problem in Mexico. Also profitable sugar cane fields take the place of more nutritional crops.
Mexican Coke is still in the old school glass bottles It tastes WAY better, since its real sugar and less of it, letting the spiciness come out. It’s real easy to find in the Portland area. Any decent taco truck or taqueria will have it as well as Jarritos. It’s an appropriate pairing since mexican Coke compares to that corn syrupy filth the way legit street tacos (REAL tacos) compare to taco bell.
You both aged extremely well. Two questions for you:
1. Did you find the fountain of youth or is it clean living?
2. How did you get an ice scraper to last 20 years? I get about two years before they snap.
Happy anniversary to a great looking couple (you look so young in the first photo)!
Scraping away the stuff that gets in the way of seeing clearly is important at many levels!
Not a wedding gift, but I still carry a 1960s vintage window scraper that had been in my ’66 Tempest. It’s more for show, though – the plastic’s getting pretty brittle.
I just got a little bit misty. Nice story, Doug… congrats on 20 years!
Now, go check out some motorcycles…
Doug, you have a great way of telling a story. Happy anniversary to you and your wife — and also to your scraper!
I had to run out and check if my own favorite scrapers were from Mallory — but unfortunately they are not. My favorite scrapers are also a few decades old, and I think they were gifts from my dad when I moved away from home. Then there’s the long-handled scraper & brush tool that I bought from Aldi a few years ago. After buying it, I realized that it worked really well, but I haven’t been able to find another one like it since.
Thanks for the great story.
Happy Anniversary, Doug! I envy both the amount of snow you still have up there and your memory, as my tenth anniversary is a week from tomorrow, and I have no recollection of what we did for party favors!
As for the scrapers, I have a small collection of them that I rotate through, mostly assembled from those left in cars I’ve bought over the years and the rare new one when the mood strikes me and the price is right. The only ones unique enough to call out are a couple brass ones that came with an 86 Caprice I purchased from the original owners 5 years ago.
Great story and unique little gift! I got married in Costa Rica as well (last year). We spent time on the beaches at Tamarindo and hiked into the cloud forests at Monteverde. Great times in an awesome place!
LOL. We had a winter wedding also (December 29) but I doubt my wife would have been receptive to your idea… she is pretty traditional (we did glass Christmas ornaments). (And of course there’s not a lot of ice in San Diego…)
Happy Anniversary! It is interesting that you have a way to tie your wedding into something auto related other than writing about the vehicle(s) used in your wedding. However, after reading all of your posts here on CC, I suppose it is not suprising! You two were such a cute, happy couple in ’97; the same can be said of the last photo. I wish you all three (I’m including that ice scraper) many more happy decades together.
Cool picture by the way.
Oh, and I still have the scraper I bought at the Kinney Drug Store in Potsdam, NY when I went to college there…in 1983!
Great story! This is why I love CC so much!
Happy Anniversary to the DougDs! What a great story. I suspect that Mrs. DougD had a better honeymoon than did Mrs. JPC, but mostly because our wedding day in 1990 was the day I chose to quit smoking. :/
I will come out and admit that I have no sentimentality towards ice scrapers at all. I buy them, they break or get lost or get “adopted” by kids, and I buy another. My status as a nonsmoker, however, I have clung to as doggedly as you have your special ice scraper. Congratulations!
Happy Anniversary!
We’ll be celebrating our 40th next January, if we make it that long. 🙂
I have never been more happy to dispose of any item in my entire life as I was when I threw away all my ice scrapers and snow brushes upon moving to Las Vegas 10 years ago.
Those ice scrapers were a wonderful idea! And, happy anniversary. This was a terrific story that will have me smiling this afternoon.
Our 20th is next year and I’m fairly confident we have some ice scrapers that exceed that age. Of course, I’ve only used a scraper once this entire winter….
Congrats on the anniversary! And also how cool to see an actually useful wedding favor…most tend toward the “engraved useless trinkets” category. We did little tiny buckets filled with saltwater taffy, as it was a beach wedding–the buckets were as useless as most but at least you could eat the candy.
You could make tiny little sand castles, or bail tiny boats….
I bought a set of Firestone tires on the Queensway in Etobicoke in 1976, and this little beauty came with the set. Still doing the job today!
I remember that design from the annual Hallman’s Chevrolet giveaways at new model introduction time back in the Fifties.
This song was also #1 on the charts 20 years ago today, thought you might enjoy the nostalgia. Happy anniversary!!
Loved the storytelling, loved the pictures. Happy anniversary to Doug and Mrs. Doug!
What a great idea! At least when you’re out freezing your buns off scraping your windsheild you can have warm memories of a happy event.
Congrats on a milestone anniversary! Any lady that can put up with or better yet support a gearhead’s mania is definitely a keeper!
Awesome story Doug. You tell it beautifully!! We married in November, also a great time because no one is going on vacation and halls, etc are easy to find.
It’s such a pleasure to have watched you and Tammy grow in your love and marriage.
Continue to use good tools and you’ll be good for many more years,
Love you guys,
Happy anniversary, and hope you have many more to come.
I don’t even keep a snow scraper in my car these days. If I even think it is going to snow I just stay home. At home the cars are always in the garage so no scraping there either. I certainly don’t envy anyone who has to go out and scrape the car windows before they can drive.
I don’t keep one in my car either. Then again, south Florida doesn’t see much call for them.
Happy Anniversary! That’s a very clever and pragmatic party favor – well in keeping with the climate and time of year!
Van harte gefeliciteerd, mijnheer en mevrouw De G !
Love your stories DougD.
Hoping there will be many more in the future, even if it does mean crazy car parts showing up on my doorstep.
Happy Anniversary ❤
Awwwee cute couple.
Keeping the same ice scraper for that long is impressive! I’ve lived in nasty winter climates most of my life and I’ll bet I’ve gone through dozens. Handy hint if you ever get frost in say San Diego or Atlanta… A credit card will work just fine!
Congrats on 20 years of marriage. We’re coming up on 25 years together and she hasn’t killed me yet….
Giving everyone Ice scrapers was truly an inspired idea. You could have given everyone some stupid trinket that they would have thrown into a drawer, and forgotten about. Instead, you gave them something that they pull out of their glove box, and it makes them Think of you. Over the years, you’ve probably saved at least a couple of people from being late to work. Happy anniversary!
Happy Anniversary Doug and Tam. The scraper is the single unforgettable wedding favour. Ours sported the ribbon for many years. Much love and blessings for many more years.
I must admit Tammy, that my initial fear of “what’s wrong with the guy”. Being so old and unmarried were unfounded. Happy I got that one wrong. Love you both. Hugs all around.
Thanks everyone.
Annie, I think it’s now blatantly obvious what’s wrong with me, but I guess Tam can take it.
Your scraper is older than me.
Happy Anniversary! No ice scraper? Cover the windshield or all the windows with a sheet or blanket. Saves a lot of time and may prevent scratches to the glass.
I very much hope I won’t need to use mine this year anymore. If there is something I hate it’s that ceremony every morning at below freezing temperatures. My current scraper is not that old – the one before was at least 10 years old when I sold my previous car to a Transylvanian (yes). It’s probably still serving a young vampire somewhere in Romania.
Oh: Happy Anniversary!
Are there any scraper factories left in North America?
Happy Motoring (and Anniversary), Mark
HAPPY 20TH ANNIVERSARY ! .
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I left the snow belt in 1970 but I still grab those old scrapers whenever I see then in junked cars when I’m out chasing parts .
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I prefer the ones with a clear plastic blade over your toothed typ .
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My favorite has a yellow handle =8-) .
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May you have twenty more years at the very least ! .
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-Nate
What a great story Doug!! The Italians would not be happy with an ice scraper; we are not about practicality but about a tacky and totally useless trinket! Yay for practical! Congratulations you two!
Charming story! And congratulations! Here in coastal California I use a scraper a few times a year. Yet they rarely last long … not sure why. Maybe it’s the sea salt in the frost 🙂